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SHARON BECK-DORAN
Relevant Faith Journey
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TBT: When I Think About the Lord
My deep thoughts need a little time to marinate this week, so I dug into my files from way back when and decided to do a...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Dec 8, 20226 min read


Healing for a Late Bloomer: Thoughts on Sex, The Bible and Purity Culture
I’ve come to realize that breaking up is a process. A couple of months after I broke up with Biff he called drunk and begging for me to...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Dec 1, 202211 min read


No Tengo Novio: Grace for a Late Bloomer
When I left church ministry in 2008, it was wonderful to go to church and not be in charge of anything. I tried going back to my...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Nov 23, 20229 min read


Confessions of a Late Bloomer
Up until 2009, I had a MySpace blog where I shared anecdotes from the single life and reflections on faith. Kind of like this, but...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Nov 17, 202212 min read


Late Bloomer
I was a late bloomer. I went to a small Christian high school. There were three boys and twelve girls in my graduating class. Because the...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Nov 10, 202210 min read


Meditation on Beginning
This post is better experienced as an audio recording. I encourage you to click the PodCast link at the top of the page and give it a...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Nov 3, 20222 min read


Questioning Faith
Growing up I didn’t really know there were other kinds of churches. I knew there were Catholics. I guess there were Mormons and Jehovah’s...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Oct 27, 20228 min read


Pastor.
Although I haven’t been employed with the title of Pastor since 2018, I still think of myself as a pastor.

Sharon Beck-Doran
Oct 20, 20229 min read


Finding Home (Making the Change Part 3)
I was born in 1981. My parents transplanted from red-dirt Oklahoma to sunny California in the middle of the hippie movement.

Sharon Beck-Doran
Oct 12, 20226 min read


Making the Change Part 2: The Transition
Picking up where I left off, talking about change. If you haven’t read part 1, you can find it here: https://www.relevantfaithjourney.com...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Sep 14, 20227 min read


Making the Change Part 1: Rethinking Repentance
Sometimes change comes softly to us. Sometimes we run after change like a gazelle in an open meadow. And sometimes change comes at you...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Sep 7, 20225 min read


Let Your Light Shine
Depending on the day, humanity offers profound inspiration or embarrassing disappointment (as in, “Gosh these humans really suck.”) Some...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Aug 10, 20229 min read


Vote Your Faith. But What Does That Mean?
It was a very hot summer day. I think I was around 3 years old. Our church, led by my dad the pastor, had organized a group to picket the...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Jul 14, 20227 min read


The Power of Perspective
There are a large number of good men who don’t realize they have sexually harassed and abused women. Sex education from my conservative...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Jul 5, 20226 min read


Notes from the Pandemic
Adam is fine with quarantine. In fact, I think he could live this way for like ever. Except for me being fairly difficult to isolate with.

Sharon Beck-Doran
May 10, 20205 min read


Cuz Corona, and other thoughts on waiting.
I have felt like a pilgrim on an adventure, and I know how to trust that God will go with me. But what is it to stay?

Sharon Beck-Doran
Apr 16, 20204 min read


I have a lot of feelings.
I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months on Thanksgiving Day, 2012. It had been my longest lasting relationship at a time when most of my...

Sharon Beck-Doran
Mar 1, 20205 min read


Book Review: The Color of Compromise
I start with my confession. I have given a polite nod to racism, I see you insignificantly hiding in the corner, but no real consideration.

Sharon Beck-Doran
Feb 5, 20205 min read


That one time I thought I was all that but really it was God.
Budgeting with a spouse is tough work. When income is uneven and unpredictable, well, there could be ugly crying sometimes.

Sharon Beck-Doran
Jan 23, 20205 min read


An Introduction, that was me at the altar
And so, this little girl grew up and became a lady who inherited the internal censorship of a third-generation pastor.

Sharon Beck-Doran
Jan 16, 20203 min read

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